(Questions Nel asked this week: Mum…why is it that in all the books I read, children’s heads are soooo big and their bodies are sooooooo small?
Me: well, coz that’s reality. Look at all the toddlers and babies you know, their heads are big and their bodies are small right?
Nel: Mum, you’re and adult right? Is that why your head is small but your body soo big?
Me thinking: (yeah don’t remind me, I still have to loose that 5 kgs!!)
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My two rabbits have been eating like crazy, I suppose all rabbits eat a lot! Don’t be fooled by their petite structure and think they’re cheap pets to look after! It’s just about a couple of months and I’ve already bought a few BIG bags of food. Thing is this, a rabbit poops endlessly! That’s what they do all day. Eat and shit.
Well, those clumsy fellas sometimes topple all their food and also poop in their water bowl. Sometimes when I clean after them (as if cleaning after my own kids are not enough!) I just throw all the stuff into my plant pot. I throw them all, the leftover food and the heaps of poop.
Well, one fine day my pot started sprouting with all sorts of plants! Curious I left them there and studied them everyday. Eventually I discovered they all grew from the rabbit’s leftover food (mainly seeds…oats, barley, sunflower etc). Well…one particular one just kept growing taller and taller and taller………just like Jack and the Beanstalk, only it didn’t reach heaven…. it is none other then, the very beautiful Sunflower. :)
I’ve to tell you, my MOST favourite flower in the whole world is the Sunflower, so imagine my joy and excitement when I discovered that all of a sudden I had about 8 sunflowers growing in my garden! The tallest being about 9 feet. J Absolutely breathtaking…so beautiful…so….lovely….. so magnificent (especially the one that is 9 feet tall.)
So I’ve discovered rabbit food and rabbit poop go hand in hand. Throw the food, it grows. Throw the poop on it to fertilize it, creating the healthy tall sunflower.
Here’s some pics of sunflowers taken in my garden.
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Rabbit poop + food = sunflowers
Thursday, November 15, 2007
Some recent random pictures
Life around here is as usual. It's terribly rainy over here. Yesterday the rain was so bad, I pulled over and stopped the car. It's just the fear of crashing again after the accident the other day. Other than that, we're ok. I think I've lost an inch off my waist. Well, another 4 more inches to go! but am working on it. Well, here's some random pictures taken recently.
Jo's hooked on books. She woke today at 6am and said "read mum!" arrrghhh...that is like torture to be woken at 6am! I'm not a morning person.

We went to our favourite picnic spot again where the kids get to play with sand and wade in the stream. This time round we caught baby fishes, shrimp, and surprise, surprise, 2 dragonfly nymphs! that was an exciting catch coz none of us have ever seen nymphs before and I've been showing it to Nel in her encyclopedia.
This is a dead HUGE HUGE toad we found at the stream! You won't believe it, but yes, Chinese people eat this toad. I admit, I've tried it. They remove the skin, cut it and stirfry it with ginger and soya sauce and whatever. Basically it tastes like REALLy tender chicken. I'm not particularly crazy about the dish, but if nobody told me it was toad, I'd say it is delicous.


Other than that, life is good, the Lord is good. :)
Blessings to all.
Tuesday, November 6, 2007
Before I forget...have to pen down some questions asked by Nel today...
1) Mum, when I get to heaven, if I ask God to sit with me on the train, will He sit with me?
2) Mum, if I'm naughty in heaven, will God punish me?
3) Mum, what color is God's clothes?
4) Mum, why is it you have to obey God and I have to obey you? is it, coz God is bigger than you and you are bigger than me? In that case, Daddy obeys God, you obey daddy, I obey you and Jo has to obey me right?
(I write it down, coz I print all this stuff for them to read in the future. :) )
Well, today I sent off a dear god-brother to the Phillipines to pursue a degree in Film making. Hope he'll cope well. Also spent the afternoon reading a journal I kept during one of the long trips across USA by Amtrak. I have to admit, I've changed so much since then. I had to laugh at some of the entries in that journal. Stuff like talking about my period, to running away from an expensive restaurant with friends, to crying after a friend shoved me while I was roller blading, and talk of peeing, pranks and some other crazy crazy stuff which I shouldn't relate here.
Just helps me realise that I shouldn't judge what young adults and teens talk about nowadays coz I was once like that. haaha...
soo...just rambling. I was again down with a bout of flue. This time my lungs were so congested i was wheezing (doc thought it was asthma, but it isn't). Then I had conjunctivitis. Well, my help came in the form of my little Nel. I told her I Was sick and she had to look after her sister, and she DID!
She kept Jo away from my room the whole day, told her to eat her lunch, kept her busy playing and reading and did all the things I would usually do. Amazing, coz Nel is only 5. I'm blessed. Today I'm much better. :
well...tis all for now.
oh yeah...my sink was clogged again. I dug and dug to bring up eeky black seaweed like substance. yukkkk... still it remained clogged till evening when husband took out the whole pipe to find MORE of that seaweed like substance clogging the ENTIRE pipe! arrrghhh...gross. Must clean the sink with a regular dose of Sodium Bicarbonate.
Happy week and here's kisses to all of you.
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
Jo quotes some verses
Jo turns 2 years 3 months (27 months) on November 5th. It's a routine that before i give her milk at night we go through some Bible verses. She picks them up quite quickly and I've recorded her saying some of her verses. In case you can't hear them clearly they are
1) Love one Another
2) With God Nothing is impossible
3) I will enter Your gates with thanksgiving in my heart
4) Bless the Lord Oh my Soul, let everything that is within me bless His holy name
5) When I am afraid I will trust in You, my God in whom I trust
6) For God so loved the world He gave His only son
7) Let everything that has breath Praise the Lord.
To listen to Jo saying her verses, go here Recording of Jo and click on "Download verse2" to download. Will take about one min. (wma format)
Hope you enjoy listening. :)
Before I end today, Nel asked me 2 questions today. 1) will I have to brush my teeth when I get to heaven? 2) Will God give me a Husky when I get to heaven? I really want one. Do dogs live in heaven?
P.S while waiting for audio to download, you can try this really cool IQ Game . I enjoyed it! It's trying to get everyone from one side of the river to the other, but only taking 2 at a time without having certain people kill others.
Monday, October 29, 2007
Some random statements and questions by Jo and Nel
Nel: Mum, what is that bag of thing? (pointing to the pack of sanitary pads)
Me: Well....it's ummm....it's like diapers...where big women wear.
Nel: Why do big women wear diapers?
Me: Well..we only wear it once a month, coz ...coz... you know mummy's womb where you came from Nel? Well...when there's no baby there, the womb cleans itself out by releasing some blood. (I know, not very accurate answer right? too lazy to go into fertilization etc etc...)
Nel: (with a frown) Blood? (more big frowns...)
Nel: I see..... Mum? why is it, only mummys can have babies?
Me: Nel, it's not that only mummys can have babies. Anybody can, but when you have a baby, THEN, you become a mummy.
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Today Jo decided to follow me into the toilet and climbed onto the toilet seat.
Jo: Mum, Jo want to pangsai, poop poop.
Me: ok, but take out your diapers. (Jo is not yet toilet trained.)
Jo: (with a serious look..one finger pointing at me) Ok, but mum, please leave, go outside and leave Jo alone. Don't disturb Jo ok? Mummy go outside and play with your toys quietly.
(these are my exact words to her when she comes rushing into the toilet when I'm inside!)
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Jo: Mum read the book please (Jo asks me to read books a hundred times a day I get so tired!)
So I read to her as she asked questions. Finally, I put my hands on the book and looked at her with a smile on my face and admiration and love in my heart and said "You're so cute Jo."
Jo frowned at me, pushed my hands and said with a frown "Move MUM! Don't block Jo's book."
so much for a little tender moment! hahaha
Saturday, October 20, 2007
Tee Tee
Fluffy
Teetee has a new friend, Fluffy. In my opinion Teetee should be called Fluffy coz he is REALLy fluffy. Oh well, Nel's choice of names. :) Well, every evening I put both Teetee and Fluffy in an enclosed area in my little garden.
Usually the kids insist they wanna go in with the rabbits so yesterday I let them.
Well about 15 minutes passed and Nel and Jo started getting rough with each other. Being confined in a small area for a long time tends to bring out the aggression in them as they fight for space, and who gets to feed/pet which rabbit etc.
Eventually Jo gave Nel a little push and Nel reacted by pushing her back. Nel being bigger gave a rather hard push which led to howling from Jo and this led to more shoving and pushing from both parties. So I lifted Nel out of the area and told her to stand by the gate with hands crossed for a while and to think about her actions.
Then I realised well, Jo had part of this fight too. So I lifted Jo out too, who protested and cried with all her little strength. I told her to stand by the gate too with hands crossed, which she did though she had tears streaming down her eyes.
As they stood there, Nel looked and Jo, and Jo looked at Nel. Both looked funny with hands crossed over shoulders.................and then......they thought the situation funny and started laughing a little first amidst tears, and then real roll on the floor laughter! hahahahha.....
Don't they look so pitifully cute? Especially Jo with her overfull diapers? haha.... you have to see the faces with tears frowning, then smiling and eventually laughing ...hahaha...I have to admit, I started laughing myself...and in the end we just ended everything, kept the rabbits and went for our little walk in the evening breeze. :)
Sunday, October 14, 2007
Thank God we're safe
I just wanna give thanks to God that me and the kids are ok. What happened today....
well, first I sent my husband to the airport coz he's gonna attend his nephew's wedding back in his hometown. The airport is a good 1 hour away, and today it was just raining endlessly and HEAVILY!
So after I dropped him off, we drove home in heavy torrential rain. So heavy I could barely see more than 30-50 meters ahead of me. Since we were so far from home, I wanted to maintain a reasonable speed to get home quick and out of the horrid rain. I was on the fast lane most of the time, little Jo asleep in her car seat and Nel almost dozing off.
About 20 mins before home, I slowed down thinking I'd come to the exit, but it wasn't, so I kept on the left lane, and I thank God for that, for at that my moment, my car started hydroplanning It was pretty scary, I admit. coz all of a sudden I lost control of the steering, it wouldn't respond, and no matter what I did, my car kept skidding to the left. If I had been on the fast lane as I had been most of the journey, surely we would have collided with another vehicle and my little girls and I would be in a pretty bad shape. (shivers)
Well, when I lost control of the car, it kept skidding towards the left no matter what I did....and common sense told me not to hit the breaks too hard or we might just summersault altogether over the very short barrier into the monsoon drain. What I did was to ease off the accelerator and to step very lightly on the breaks, a little at a time...till it slowed a little. Still we inevitably crashed into the barrier. I thank God, we did not overturn. Little Jo's side of the window smashed to bits, and I Thank GOD, my little girl was not hurt. Sure, she was jolted from her slumber and cried unconsolably for a while.
We waited about half hour before my bro came to help us (in the very heavy rain). I suppose I am a little shaken....and still a little jittery.... but again, Praise God, we're all ok.
here attached is an excerpt from an online website..should you face the same situation.
Car response
What the driver experiences when a car hydroplanes depends on which wheels have lost traction and the direction of travel.
If the car is traveling straight, it may begin to feel slightly loose. If there was a high level of road feel in normal conditions, it may suddenly diminish. Small correctional control inputs will be ignored by the car. If the drive wheels hydroplane, there may be a sudden audible rise in engine RPM and indicated speed as they begin to spin. In a broad highway turn, if the front wheels lose traction, the car will suddenly begin to drift into an outer lane. If the rear wheels lose traction, the back of the car will begin to slew out sideways into a skid. If all four wheels hydroplane at once, the car will slide to an outer lane. When any or all of the wheels regain traction, there may be a sudden jerk in whatever direction that wheel is pointed.
Recovery
To recover, never turn the steering wheel of the car or apply the brakes. Either action could put the car into a skid from which recovery would be difficult or impossible.
Instead, with no change in steering input, gently ease pressure off the gas; control should then return. If braking is unavoidable, use light pumping actions on the brakes until hydroplaning has stopped.
With a manual transmission, immediately when you notice that you are hydroplaning, press the clutch down so all wheels can roll freely; this will restore grip.
Thursday, October 11, 2007
Marriage
They say, if someone wants to be a writer, that person better write something everyday, doesn't matter how long they work at it, as long as they write something. I used to have thoughts to write about almost everyday when I had that MSN blog.... but somehow, my motivation to keep blogging has waned... and though I have random thoughts here and there, I'm not motivated to pen it down.
so here I am, forcing myself to write something, less my brain becomes lazy. Life is moving at such a fast pace. Was it just yesterday that I said goodbye to someone who was leaving for some country far away for a couple of years. Fast forward, and boom, I just saw the same person and 2 years have passed. 2 years, and I thought it was just yesterday I said goodbye. The person is sitting in her same old favourite chair at church, a little fatter a little fairer, but she's back and you wonder where the heck has time gone.
Talking of time, Sunday marks my 7th wedding anniversary. Seven?? my gosh...and I realise next year marks the 10th year since I got back from the US. I tend to think I'm only in my 20's till I check the mirror and realise I'm in my 30's. I'm just writing randomly and aimlessly today. but as I hit mid 30's the issue of time is a lot on my mind. I feel sorta in between, not old, not young.
Anyway, speaking of marriage, I'm blessed with a wonderful husband. He's not perfect, but neither am I. There are days when I ponder, question about stuff.... but then, surveying and analysing my life, I know God has given the best for me. He (my hubby) is patient, and able to tolerate me as I am, my ups and downs. thank God for that, for I really need a patient husband. haha...
He's not the fast pace goal seeker who's always going for the money. He's one easily contented, reliable, consistent, and loving. :) (sometimes tooooooo patient!)
As for me, I"m still working on me. There are days when I tend to let my tongue wag a little more than it should...(I mean negatively), then I'm reminded to hold it back. Yeah...you know, some people think if you don't like something, "speak it out and take it off your chest!". From my experience, that only results in terrible arguments, exchange of heated careless words that cut, hurt and sting.
In my opinion after 7 years of marriage, YES, disagreements and negative feelings must be voiced out, but in a proper way at the right time. Those who believe in leting it all out of their system without considering the other, are only gonna cause damage to their marriage. It only feeds the anger and ego of the angry spouse, it's a very self centered approach.... to me, it's like throwing glass at your spouse without considering how it's gonna hurt.
Sometimes it causes damage which lasts a long time, and leaves words that haunts the memory for a long time.
I've learnt to control my tongue, but still to voice things out...in a way that would get to him, hopefully without hurting him, and my husband has done the same. I suppose that's why we're still married and happy to be with each other. :) There's so much to be learned....so much more of myself to improve...... but yeah, me and hubby, we love each other (though there are moments we cannot stand each other! hahaha....but that is not often)....and with God as the center of the marriage...this family is mostly happy. :)
ok, I'm rambling..........................
Tuesday, October 2, 2007
Jo and mess!
As we were all just lazing around in the livingroom, Jo jo came up and said "Mum, I pangsai (pooped)." Before I could take her to the toilet, she did the unthinkable. (well not unthinkable for a 2 year old), she stuck her hands into her diaper!!!!!!!!!! Eeewwwwwwwwwww!! I jumped up and yelled "Jo, take your hands out!," hoping her hands had not touched her poop. Alas, she took out her hands and yeah, stuck to the tips and all her nails was the stinky, brownish poop!!! Urrrghhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!
"Off to the toilet!!" "don't touch the sofa!" "don't put it in your mouth!" ....and I had to keep saying all this commands as we marched to the toilet! arrghh! yukk! The joys of motherhood! hahaha.....
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This morning Jo had bread and jam for breakfast. She undid the sandwich and wiped the jam on the floor and said "AIYOH!" (Malaysian for Oh No!) "JO!!" I jumped up again. You must be wondering why I'm always jumping up? well, actually I'm down with a horrid flue....and trying to rest when she has to create all these little scenes for me. *sigh*..... anyway, since I have absolutely no energy today, I gave her a series of commands to follow.
I told her "Jo, put that sandwich in the dustbin, go to the kitchen and get the cloth."
So pitter patter, went her little feet. After a while I hear a "thud" sound, and assume it must be JO throwing the sandwich in the dustbin. Then I hear her sweet voice calling very loudly from the kitchen "Mum, where is it?" (meaning the cloth). I yell back "By the sink!"
A few minutes later, she emerges with cloth in hands, wipes the mess up. and asks "mum, could I...have...milk?" So I replied "first, put the cloth back, next to to the toilet at the back and wash your hands, then come back and pick up all your toys."
I listen intently...and yeah, I heard the "plop" sound (cloth in sink), then I heard the tap water running (washing her hands) and then tap water off, then she appeared picked up her toys and said "I've washed my hands ady, and pick up toys ady (already)."
"very good Jo", I smile at her and gave her the milk. (No, I've not managed to wean her yet). *sigh*
but....yeah, children are a blessing, life is interesting with them around. Though all those instance were REALLY messy, they make nice memories. Nel is currently at Chinese class. Will have to go pick her up soon.
ciao.
Wednesday, September 26, 2007
Jo's first real punishment
Little Jo decided to try and see what it'd feel like to smack her older sister. So, while snatching her sister's stuff away, she smacked Nel on the face and yanked her hair. (yes, a 2 year old can do that!) So I pulled her away, got to her level, looked in her eye and said "You CANNOT hit your che-che (sister), you understand? Hands are not for hitting.."
Thursday, September 20, 2007
Addtions to the family.
Wish I could tell you that I am pregnant with a new baby. but no, no, no. Am not pregnant, do not plan to get pregnant in the near future.... maybe in 2 years...maybe maybe.....
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Kuala Gandah Elephant Sanctuary
The water activities (elephant dunks you, and swimming with the elephants) were canceled due to strong currents. too bad, or I might have posted a picture of me being dunked. Next time. :)
Finally, if I've anything to say, it'd be STOP illegal logging, and safe the rainforest. I'm passionate about nature, and I feel sad when their (animals) homes are being destroyed. Why are we destroying God's beautiful creation?
Sunday, September 9, 2007
more why questions from Nel
Nel has been asking tonnes of questions...that I admit, sometimes, I loose my patience. *aarrghh...I can hear the lightning strike me for being an impatient mother.* You see her torrent of questions usually come when I'm driving. Coz she's sitting down with nothing to do...so she either starts asking questions, or she starts making up strings of songs which she INSISTS I listen and appreciate and clap!! or she starts disturbing/playing with her sister.
I can take a little bit of listening, and answer some questions, but when I'm on the busy highway and Nel's questions or songs increase, my head starts to pound and sometimes I yell out "zip your mouth or we're gonna blah blah blah." Ok, I need to be more patient. Praying for MORE.
Well, yesterday her question was quite CUTE! Here's what she asked "Mum, why is it, I can see your chest bump out and Ah Ma's (grandma's) chest and aunty's chest all bump out (protruding) but I cannot see daddy's or Ah Kong's (grandpa) or mine?"
I thought, oh my, here we go, another question about anatomy. (If you remember, when she was 4 she once asked why Lu's belly button was dangling and hanging out of his tummy!) Well...so I was about to go into breast tissues and milk ducts etc etc....when she herself answered the question. She said "Is it coz you, AhMa and aunty are women, and daddy and AhKong are men? and because I'm just a little girl? that's why our chest are flat?"
"Yes Nel!" I replied happily. Not wanting to go into scientific detail since I was driving. Maybe it's time to get a science book on human anatomy for her. Ok, we're off to the Elephant Sanctuary in some forest where we get to ride the elephants, feed them and bathe them. Ciao.
Monday, September 3, 2007
It's been an interesting week with all sorts of things going on. Well...it was a long weekend coz of our coutry's 50th independence celebration, which was a REALLY big do! too lazy to blog about it though...it was just a really busy weekend with lotsa concerts and fireworks (which baby J didn't like at all) and blah blah blah.
Wednesday, August 29, 2007
In Search of Imitation Kipling
Recently some of my friends had been telling me how unique Kipling bags and Le SportSac bags are. So I went to check them out, and YES, I simply fell in love with these two brands. they are unique, and "young", nothing like the boring old leather bag.
Unfortunately, the prices here are RIDICULOUSLY high!! Well, I suppose if you're earning 1000 pounds a month, a 90f bag is no big deal. But convert it to M'sian ringgit, the bag becomes a whopping 630$$$!! So, yeah, I was disappointed when I stepped into a LeSports shop and a Kippling store to find most products 250 and above. That's not very affordable when I don't earn too much.
Well, somebody told me I might find an imitation if I went to Petaling Street, which is a little ChinaTown in Kuala Lumpur. A street (very very long street) packed with stalls after stalls of imitation stuff! So me, hubby and sis in law, decided upon a trip to the street. We parked all our kids at my mum's and set off on a Tues night, thinking it wouldn't be so crowded. I was WRONG! It was so packed, the lanes were so narrow, I found myself being bumped left and right while tourists walked past me by the hundreds! I had my camera but I couldn't take very nice shots, simply coz I'm not as tall as all the tourists there. Well, I'm a mere 5' 2 and the tourists mainly from Europe are TALL. Anyway, after one hour, I couldn't find any Kiplings, but LOTS of LeSportSac of VERY BAD quality!
My husband the "thick-faced" haggler stood by me everytime I thought I was interested in something. You really have to haggle there. I saw many a tourist being cheated out of their pockets. Some of the sellers are nice, some are really RUDE and they talk like they're gonna kill you when you try to bargain for a lower price. So it's good to go with someone who's not easily intimidated (like my husband). haha..
A collage of some of the shots I took on Petaling Street.
A stall selling delicous charcoal grilled chestnuts
WANNA Come shop here at Petaling Street? imitation Nikes, Adidas, perfumes, wallets. You name it they have it!
Friday, August 24, 2007
rain rain
today as usual, I headed for my morning lecture at the university. After lecturing for about an hour, it began to thunder and storm outside! There was hardly any point in trying to beat the sound of the roaring rain, so I had my students do some work while I walked around to check on their progress.

a flower I brought back from Maxwell
Part of my spice plant (Bunga Kantan-totally aromatic)
Nel holding a flower from the garden wall creeper
Nel checking out the little wild plant from Maxwell
Friday, August 17, 2007
Today...

playing ball...








for some delicous ice cream.yumm........ Today was beautiful. thank you GOd.
(all pictures copyright of Hearts @ Raising Children.)